i understand that i have done a lot of creepy and sketchy behavior that i have affected a lot of people with. i have been openly sexual and romantic in places where i shouldn't have been. for some reason i was under the impression that some comments i made were okay because they weren't sexually explicit or they were jokes. this is incorrect, as suggestive posts, making sex jokes without intention, or even expressing non-sexual romantic desire can cause great harm and distress to other people as well. i was stupid and irresponsible about where some of my posts were made to the point where it was dangerous. i have learned more about how i should place my boundaries since then and i hope to keep this behavior in places where it belongs. i'm sorry for the harm i may have caused during the past decade or so.